Frequently Asked Questions

• How can I help my child learn his or her letters?

  The best way to teach your child letters is by increasing his or her exposure to them. Point out letters when reading to your child every day. Throughout the day, identify letters in the grocery store, driving in the car, or when opening the mail. You can also teach your youngster letters by using modeling clay or by writing letters in the sand or snow.

• What is a good age to enroll my child in music lessons?

  Your child can start group music classes right after he or she is born. Music Together and Kindermusik are two wonderful programs. You can also explore other group classes that may be offered in your local community. If you're considering formal music lessons, there is no hard and fast rule about when you should start. Meet with several instructors in your area to learn more about their programs. Most music teachers will start formal lessons with children around age 5 when they have greater attentive ability and can learn to read music. Children generally start with piano or violin as both accommodate smaller musician’s hands.

• What is the most important factor in developing my child’s intellect?

  You. Research consistently shows that the most important factor in a youngster life is a caring and engaging parent.

• Is too much television bad for my child?

  Heavy television viewing has been associated with attention problems in children. If your youngster has been watching TV extensively her or she may resist a reduction in television time. However, it's important to cut back. Gradually reduce the hours your child spends in front of the television and increase other activities such as playing outdoors, free play with toys indoors or additional one-on-one time spent with you.

• Will a computer help my child learn faster?

  The research varies on this subject. Some research does suggest that a computer may help a preschooler learn basic skills such as letter recognition. However, other research shows that the more time a child spends on the computer can translate to poorer performance in later school years. Time may be better spent engaging your child in other activities such as reading. Most importantly, however, do not make the time with any electronic media a substitute for time spent with you.

• My four-year-old cannot write letters yet. What can I do?

  First off, don't worry. The development of fine motor skills such as handling a crayon or tying a shoelace comes after the development of gross motor skills such as running and jumping. Don’t push your child too early. Forcing a child to write before he or she is developmentally ready will cause a great deal of frustration for everyone involved.

• How can I help my child develop an interest in reading?

  Make sure to have plenty of books and magazines around your house and set aside time to read to your child every day. You can create a passion for books by starting with your child’s own interests. For example, if your child enjoys going to the zoo, check out nonfiction books at the library about animals. You may also add a fictional book with animal characters such as Curious George.

• What are the best toys for my preschooler?

  A child should have a variety of toys because each provides different benefits. For example, pretend play toys enhance creativity while building toys develop analytical skills. When choosing toys, also consider the more simplistic toys. These toys allow your child's imagination to flourish. Finally don't be afraid to join your youngster's playtime. Research shows your child's play is enhanced when you join in the fun.

• Does my child need to go to preschool?

  In a nutshell, no. Children who come from high-risk homes have shown some long-term benefits of early education. However, there is no research to support sending children who are not in a high-risk situation. If you follow the recommendations in The Smarter Preschooler, your son or daughter will be ready for kindergarten. If you choose to send your child to preschool, look for one that is play oriented.

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